If one gets my namecard, it states: Dreamer - Entrepreneur.

And if one talks to me on my ambitions and goals, I can say that in many ways that it's just like talking to a child. For a child is usually free from all the 'can't do' or self limiting beliefs that one gets over the years.

I'd say my ambitions are 'wild' to many. In fact, I've gotten many replies from people when giving out my namecard. Some business people nods in acknowledging my belief. Some are quite amused and inspired.

But there are also those who have been so bounded by the small gains in life, that they have a disbelief look... more so when I share my dreams.

"Don't you think it's too far fetched?", "Do you think these can sell?" etc etc.

Well, I don't doubt that good research is needed before one embarks on anything (and I don't just mean business). But then, there's also the belief that we can achieve all that we want if we just believe... and as much as we use history as a yardstick, but how about we creating our own history?

Eg. before the first man walked on the moon, what yardstick could we use? Well, that's just one example of 'far fetched' dreams coming true. I'm sure there were lots of questions, and many people weren't convinced til someone really stepped finally. In fact, it's now a norm - we don't go "wow, another man went to the moon!".

Here are some other examples, and what negative thoughts that most likely have came up:
1. Computers - what's that for? We don't need that. Those are just in the movies.
2. Flying - you think we are birds? Are you nuts?
3. Cars - you mean there's more than bicycles? How will it work? Oil - huh, that's for cooking!
4. Obama - we've never had a black president before. Fat hope.
5. Eminen - white don't rap. It ain't in their blood.
6. Jackie Chan - we have enough talents in Hollywood. We don't need any Asians.
7. Chinese in Malaysia (when they first arrived) - don't even think of making it big. We don't speak the language, nor look like the locals.
8. Japan - we've been bombed. We're doomed - forever! We can never be a great nation.
9. Korean soap operas - we aren't that cool. We aren't like Japan - in fact, far from it! And we don't speak the multi language the South East Asian people speak... you sure we can make it into their countries?
10. Singapore - so small, sure or not can become finance hub? We where got talents one - our people not so smart some more. We also don't know how to speak proper English one. You think we who/ what ah?
11. Mcdonalds - you mean they know what hamburgers are in Asia? Don't they eat those weird stuff only?
12. Sushi - you think they know what raw fish is all about? I don't think they know how to appreciate such expensive delicacy. I've never seen them eating anything else but cooked food - and it's mainly just chicken!

Frankly, the list goes on. But as you can see, these negativeness were all proven wrong. Instead, what we have is big successful businesses giving back to the public and successful and happy people living wonderful lives for themselves and others.

So, far fetch is really a self limiting belief.

I'd say, go ahead and dream big, and inspire others along with it. Like they say, if you aim for the moon, the least you'll land on is the stars :)

One of most shocking news since the early death of Princess Diana about a decade ago. This time, its the King Of Pop - Michael Jackson.

Initially in the morning, I saw a friend posted a message on Facebook "Thank you, Michael, for the great music all these years". I found it a lil strange, as I didn't know the news at that time yet.

Cos for recent years, any affiliation to the King might have seemed weird. Though there were loyal fans, however, some fans who grew up with Michael were seem abandoning him in some ways - after all the many 'antics' had in the past decade or so, being coined the term Wacko Jacko.

You could say, his star wasn't that bright as it used to - to many, it could be because of the things the star does (like wearing masks, the constant talk bout his nose, 'dangling' his baby in the hotel and more). But to some, it's the negative publicity from the media that brought him down. This is of course echoed by Michael himself - and one of his songs just say it: Scream, a duet with Janet Jackson.

Of course, weird news release from Michael's part like 'living in oxygen tank' to promote his movie ET didn't help much.

But whatever it is - the fact remains, and that is: Michael has touched many lives through his music (and then charities), and truly is a global phenomenan. He (with his record company and PR) brought fresh catchy tunes and music videos - most notably, Thriller. These were gambles in some way, and Michael took it upon him - and it paid off, handsomely. Thriller is still the best selling record of all time - and this record is held by no other artiset, but Michael himself.

Nothing ever came close to that magical sales of Thriller for Michael, though his other albums has also sold millions of records - like Bad and Dangerous, History and even his last Invincible. But because of such high benchmark prior, nothing seems good enough thereafter... though there were still many good singles, hits and concerts. And his music videos continue to entertain, including the 'controversial' Black Or White.

This song must be close to Michael - who has been bugged by the media and whose mystery goes unknown (Michael claims to have vitiligo universalis but the media keeps playing his wanting to be white/ fair).

This and all the other negative stories we keep reading in the press, just makes Michael look bad. There has been reports over time that Michael wanted to 'revive' his career, though many times they were just reports. Of course, there were still some performances by Michael - one of the last acclaimed ones, with Britney Spears.



However it was the latest 'comeback' that looked most promising - his scheduled This Is It Tour in London.



But alas, that tour will not materialise too. And a comeback is never in place. His final shocking news to the world - his sudden death.

As a fan who grew up listening to his music and watching his eye grabbing music videos, I feel sad that Michael never really got the full media attention since the 1990s that he deserves. And for a star wanting to make a comeback - that to me is something to admire. I wonder what went into his mind wanting to make this comeback... for it was a tall order.

Things has to be great (it can't be good with Michael). Some say, its for personal finances. But I think, it could also be the wanting to get back into the limelight, to hit the good books - for his children to see his dad perform, his fans, and the media. To say, that this 50 year old is not too old for music and is still current.

Maybe for all these, he pushed himself beyond his boundaries? It would be sad if it was so (though other factors of death is now considered - overdose?). Whatever the reason it may be, one more black day in history remains... but like Elvis Presley whose music continues, Michael's legend will also continue in his music.

We sure are not alone, for Michael's music lives on. Yes, you will be there.






*Post a message, to the family of Jackson: Jackson Legacy.

One of the ways to inspire is by listening inspiring songs. Here are some of my favourite songs that always give me inspiration.

1. I Believe I Can Fly - R. Kelly

This would be my favourite inspiring song as it always make all problems seem small, and that we can really achieve our dreams, and... fly!

2. Hero - Mariah Carey



This song tells what we often mislook - that we are hero ourselves... people who are capable to overcoming the odds, and achieving our dreams.

3. When You Believe - Whitney Houstan & Mariah Carey



Another one on believing in miracles coming true - simply listen to the chorus "There can be miracles, when you believe..."

4. Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now



Though it may seem like a love song for couples, but this can also be a song for strong friendships as well... but whatever it is, it's about standing strong and achieving the dreams together.

5. It's My Life - Bon Jovi



This song talks about 1 life - and living it to the fullest.

6. We Are The Champions - Queen



This song is like already living the dreams - and it says it as it is, that it wasn't easy, but it's a race that one do not give up!

7. Man In The Mirror - Michael Jackson



True to his theme of 'making the world a better place' - MJ sings that change can only happen with the change from within... the one looking at the mirror! And one can just apply this to any part of life!

8. A New Day Has Come - Celine Dion



About holding on and being strong... and making it through.

9. One Moment In Time - Whitney Houston



Living the very best, and living our dreams - well, the answer is all up to us!

10. Gemilang - Jaclyn Victor



This is one of the local songs that I relate easily, and also one of my favorites. The lyrics are a lil flowery, but quite beautiful -talking about 'the million stars, and we can just be one of that star'... and after going through so much, this is the time to shine!

11. I Dream - Taufik Batisah



Another one of my favourite regional song - with a message of believing in oneself, and to be the hero that's in all of us.

12. There You'll Be - Faith Hill



This song can be more a love song, yet I find it inspiring each time - for there's a part in the lyrics that says with love, one can 'feel the sky within the reach'.


How about you? Do you have any inspiring song that can lift your mood, and make your day or problem seem light? Or simply a song that inspire you to be the person you want to be? :)

I'm continuing on with a bit more of The Secret. Was speaking to a friend about how powerful this franchise is - but low & behold, I was surprised to hear so much angst & criticism to one DVD/ book that to me has helped the world by and large.

There is no base. It's like a cult. It draws on fantasy. You mean - just believe? That's nonsense! These were the words I heard.

It was no point arguing. Though I would have loved to get my point across as much, but honestly, it didn't really matter. What matter is the others who benefited reading the book/ watching the DVD. I know it did for me.

Some examples:
1. Getting the income I want the past 2 years.
2. Getting the dream car I wanted (I actually visioned myself driving it, just like the Secret says).
3. Getting the dream job of combining business & holiday.
4. Getting the grades I wanted in school (this was before I read the Secret, but I realised I've actually applied some of the principles here).
5. Getting featured in Men's Health adverts.
6. Working with the travel & tourism related business - combining passion, hobby & business.
7. Interviewing the biggest names in the entertainment industry (for the 50+1 Malaysia book).

There are quite a few more - though these are my more prominent ones where I truly believed and applied the principles of the Law Of Attraction. And now that I'm back on track with this in mind, I am just going to raise the bar.

Again, I know it's going to sound weird to some. But who believed men could go to the moon anyway? That to me was such a big fantasy come true. More examples: the telephone (and then handphones), the computer, the internet, bullet trains, planes... weren't all these just a fantasy to the creator once?

I can just go on.... but let's not. Let's get inspired. And I'm signing off with one beautiful advert that inspire me much. Here's it to you:



May you be inspired by it too.


*For those who want a clearer picture with more fundamentals, I suggest reading the book... and of course, just have an open mind :)